Or why not borrow a book from the church library -
Nouwen, Henri. LIfe of the Beloved : spiritual living in a secular world.
We are the beloved of God and only in recognising and claiming that love do we find ourselves.
This is a rewarding book and an encouraging one speaking as it does of the depth of Christ's love for us. Nouwen says that although we already are the beloved of God yet we must claim that love - we must be taken, blessed, broken and given. Only then can we live as the beloved.