Re: Introduction

Lynda Seehusen (lyndas@dordt.edu)
Fri, 15 Mar 1996 14:40:50 -0600 (CST)


Welcome Joyce!

You wrote:

> group, which to this day I think is a major shortcoming. Also rooming in 
> preemie moms with full-term deliverers is nothing short of sadistic.

Is that a common thing?  I was fortunate to have a room to myself once
I delivered but while I was in early labor I had to share a room with
someone who was waiting for a scheduled c-section.  

Also, since it was a small hospital, the NICU room was directly across
the hall from the regular nursery.  Every day new "normal" babies were
born and discharged.  I cried every time I saw someone go home with their
baby and I felt like screaming at them "DON'T TAKE YOUR HEALTHY BABY FOR
GRANTED!  DO YOU KNOW HOW LUCKY YOU ARE?!"  

It wasn't their fault.  I'm sure if I had had a full-termer I wouldn't
know what being a preemie parent was all about either.  It was just
one aspect of Emma's stay that was more difficult.

Lynda (who will never again take a healthy baby for granted), mom to Emma, 3.5 
and Shannon, 5 months. 

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"If a woman has to choose between catching a fly ball and saving an infant's
life, she will choose to save the infant without even considering if there
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