Re: The Mack Women - Triplet Girls
Tom Hannah (TOM@clemson.edu)
Wed, 28 Feb 96 15:44 EST
Sounds familiar. We had a little boy, Matthew, on Feb 10 (24w1d -
evaluated to be 26w developmentally) after 10 days in the hospital
preceeded by a month at bedrest. My wife has made some of the same
comments as yours. She sometimes feels guilty that she could not carry
Matthew longer. All I can do (all I have thought of so far) is to assure
her that we did everything possible to prolong the pregancy. Knowing
that nothing she did caused this (nor could it have prevented it) is of
some comfort.
I have only been here for a few days. I have found the group on this
list to be great...full of information, experience...and willing to help
Tom Hannah Tom@Clemson.EDU
Information Systems Development
Clemson University
Clemson, South Carolina
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At this point, I've need help with one problem - Lisa has alot of guilt
feelings about not being able to carry the girls longer. She said things
to me like, "You don't deserve to be put through this." Has anyone else
felt this way and what can I do to help her deal with these feelings?