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Retrouvaille ... a Lifeline for Married Couples
A Program to Help Couples Heal and Renew their own Marriage Relationship. |
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[About the Program][What will it Cost?] [Couples Comments][Articles]
The program can help couples who decide to do something positive about their marriage as they try to work at rediscovering each other in a new and positive way. It is for couples who finally realise that their pain and problems in their relationship will not ease unless they are willing to work at it themselves.
If your marriage needs re-focusing, please call us. Help is available. If you and
your spouse want your marriage to work and are willing to put in your best
effort - then we invite you, even urge you, to attend. If you are thinking of
separation or divorce or you are already separated, but want to try again
- then we believe Retrouvaille can help. If you know of a couple who might
need help, please tell them about Retrouvaille and encourage them to contact us.
They are probably desperately looking for help and don't know where to turn
to find it. Although Retrouvaille is a Catholic program, we welcome couples of
other faith expressions. However, as it is designed to help marriages, we do
not recommend it to those who are unmarried and have chosen to 'live together'.
Retrouvaille is a live-in weekend and post weekend program for married
couples. The emphasis is on a new technique of communication between a
husband and wife. During the weekend, a series of in-depth presentations
are given to you and other couples like yourselves. Each presentation, given
by one of three married couples and a priest, focuses on a specific area of a
marriage relationship. After each presentation, you will have a chance to
reflect on it by yourself, then discuss it with your spouse in complete privacy.
The weekend is not a spiritual retreat, not a sensitivity group, not a seminar,
nor is it a social gathering. You will, however be encouraged, to put the past
behind you and start 'rediscovering' one another again. The weekend is not a
'miracle cure', therefore, post-weekend sessions have been designed to
continue the marriage renewal begun on the weekend. These follow-ups
review earlier concepts in greater depth, present new ones and help you apply
these concepts to your own marriage.
No couple is ever denied the chance to heal and renew their marriage because
they lack the finance. This concern should not influence your decision to come to
Retrouvaille. On the weekend, you will be asked to make an anonymous donation
to help lighten our expenses. This one donation covers both the expenses of the
weekend and all the follow- up sessions. A small fee is requested when you
register for the program to confirm your meals and accommodation.
You can learn more about the program by calling one of the listed
telephone number(s).
If you wish to remain anonymous when calling for more
information, you need not identify yourself. If you then wish to register on a
program, please be assured that all names are kept in strictest confidence.
"The 100 Best Ways to Stay Together," by Ben White, Dell Publishing Co., 1998. A selection
of short, whimsical tips in a 76-page paperback.
"Fighting for Your Marriage: Positive Steps for Preventing Divorce and Preserving a Lasting
Love," by Howard Markman and Scott Stanley, Jossey-Bass Publishing, 1996. Based on 20
years of marriage research, this book outlines how to create a strong marriage by learning healthy
communication techniques.
"The Heart of Commitment," by Scott Stanley, Thomas Nelson, 1998. This book by the
co-director of the Center for Marital and Family Studies at the University of Denver focuses on
creating a commitment-based marriage.
"We Can Work It Out: How to Solve Conflicts, Save Your Marriage and Strengthen Your Love
for Each Other," by Clifford Notarius and Howard Markman, Perigee, 1994. An easy-to-use
handbook for successful relationships.
"Love, Honor & Negotiate: Making Your Marriage Work," by Betty Carter and Joan Peters,"
Pocket Books, 1996. How to renegotiate your marriage contract and deal with practical as well
as emotional changes that occur throughout your marriage.
"Marriage Savers: Helping Your Friends and Family Avoid Divorce, by Michael J. McManus,
Zondervan Publishing House, 1995. Whether applied in premarital counseling or used to
strengthen an existing marriage, this book offers practical guidelines on creating a spiritually
based commitment to a lifetime marriage.
Seattle Marital and Family Institute, Seattle. Information: 888/523-9042. Founded by marriage
research pioneer John Gottman, the institute provides material for marriage communication
skills.
Marriage Savers, Bethesda, Md. Information: 301/469-5870. Founded by Michael and Harriet
McManus, this nonprofit group works with religious and civic groups all over the country to
prevent divorce through premarital education and counseling.
HELP IS AVAILABLE
ABOUT THE PROGRAM
WHAT WILL IT COST?
HOW CAN YOU GET MORE INFORMATION ?
COMMENTS FROM COUPLES
Visit this page to read comments from couples who have participated
in a Retrouvaille Program.
ARTICLES
From The Herald Sun: Let's make 1999 the Year of the Relationship
From Catholic Twin Circle: Retrouvaille: Healing Troubled Marriages
From Focus on Family: Be a Marriage Saver.
From Time Magazine: Should This Marriage Be Saved?
From the Detroit News: Another View....
From a New York Couple: We Survived....
From alt.support.divorce: A Much Better Marriage.
From the Detroit News: Program Helps Mend Marriages.
From the New Woman: Rx For Troubled Marriage
OTHER MARRIAGE HELP
Recovering Couples (RCA)
On Line Counseling
Marriage Retourno
Marriage Support Newsgroup
Coalition for Marriage, Family and Couples Education
Communication and Having Fun
The Ten Marks of a Happy Marriage
"Marriage" Bookmarks
Other Marriage Programs
World Wide Marriage Encounter
National Marriage Encounter
Quality Relationships
National Institute of Relationship Enhancement
Pairs
Life Partners
Marriage Talk Radio
Family Matters Newsletter
Couples Place
Divorce Busting
The Positive Way®
OTHER REFERENCES
"100 Hints: How to Stay Married for Life: Insights From Those Married 50 Years or More!" by
Bill Morelan, Honor Books, 1996. A collection of stories from those who are living happily ever
after.
Retrouvaille History and Goals
Weekend Schedule and Telephone Numbers
Retrouvaille E-Mailing List
Retrouvaille International Community Pages
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